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The Power of Choice: How to Take Control of Your Life

The power of choice. Some would say the power of choice is a blessing for humanity.


I have always been told I have the power of choice. I never really understood the meaning, especially when it seemed like every choice I made I was told “no” or to be one way or another or deemed as if something was wrong with me. So I started taking the narrative others fed.


It wasn't until I started a new job that I truly discovered the power of choice. I like to consider myself a free spirit, definitely one of a kind. At this job, I felt like it was okay to be myself, a thing that I struggle with at times because I am such a free spirit. But In my fully free nature, I was ridiculed, made fun of, told I was crazy and had mental issues. At first, I utilized the power of choice to ignore the comments: "I choose not to be affected." But once I was told I had mental issues and that became a big ordeal, it broke me. It broke me down to the point where I felt like I couldn't be myself. So I utilized the power of choice again: "I choose to reserve myself to protect my well-being."


When you have the power of choice, you are not a victim of your circumstances. You are not at the mercy of other people or events. You are the author of your own story.

Don't let the fear of making the wrong choice hold you back. The truth is, there is no wrong choice. Every choice you make will lead you down a different path, and each path has its own unique opportunities and challenges.

The important thing is to be intentional about your choices. Don't just drift through life, letting other people make your decisions for you. Take the time to think about what you want out of life, and then make choices that will help you achieve your goals.

How to Harness the Power of Choice

There are a few things you can do to harness the power of choice:

  • Be aware of your choices. The first step to harnessing the power of choice is to be aware of the choices you have. When you are aware of your choices, you can start to make decisions that are in line with your goals.

  • Take some time to reflect on your options. What are the pros and cons of each option?

  • Take responsibility for your choices. Once you are aware of your choices, you need to take responsibility for them. This means that you need to accept the consequences of your choices, both good and bad.

  • Learn from your choices. As you make choices, learn from the results. This will help you make better choices in the future.

The Benefits of Harnessing the Power of Choice

There are many benefits to harnessing the power of choice. Here are a few of them:

  • You will be more in control of your life.

  • You will be more likely to achieve your goals.

  • You will be happier and more fulfilled.

  • You will be more resilient to setbacks.


Here are some extra tips on how to make better choices

  • Think about your goals. What do you want to achieve in life? Once you know your goals, you can start to make choices that will help you achieve them.

  • Consider the consequences of your choices. What will happen if you make this choice? What will happen if you make a different choice?

  • Talk to people you trust. Sometimes it can be helpful to talk to people you trust about the choices you are facing. They can offer you support and advice.

  • Trust your gut. Sometimes you just have to go with your gut feeling. If something feels right, go for it!

Remember, you are the author of your own story. Make choices that will help you create the future you want. Remember you have the power of choice. The choice to be silent. The choice to be loud. The choice to live. The choice to be happy. The choice to be whatever you want.


I hope this blog has inspired you to harness the power of choice in your own life!

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